the best friend and the guy friend

As of right now, nothing in my life is going the way I want it to. My best friend is slowly turning her back on me. I dont think she cares that much about me right now. She’s mad at me cause Ive been hanging out with this guy a lot. You see, a few years ago my best friend, this guy and I became really close; and my best friend has liked this guy for a few years… they had their bumpy relationship, by going out for a few days (literally), and breaking up over stupid shit. Well then theres this other girl, and my best friend and her started to become really close and I started to feel really left out after a while, since they would talk about me behind my back and do things without telling me… and all i tried to do was to make my best friend happy, and all the while i was suffering for it. i just want her happy, because when shes happy, then im happy. After a couple months of trying to stay close with her, i just gave up on her and everything that we had, because i couldnt take being dissappointed anymore. so i made out with that guy who she’s always had a thing for. and we told her the next day online, and she was infuriated with me and him. obviously. i wanted to stay selfish, i wanted to keep telling myself that i was doing what i wanted for me, but i couldnt convince myself that i was doing the right thing… maybe because i wasnt, i dont know. but yeah, so me and this guy began going out, and all the while, my best friend went around and told everyone that i was a bitch and i stole her man from her and all this stupid shit, and everyone took her side over it. one of the lowest points in my life right now was when all i had was this guy and no one else. i couldnt take it anymore. i couldnt take it when i would be walking through a group of people and i could hear them whispering about me, saying things like “look at that slut” “look at that man stealer” “damn shes such a bitch.. and to her best friend too!” “dude hes not worth it.. hes a player…” so i broke it off with him. and i went back to my best friend, and she forgave me for betraying her trust, and we became best friends again.

so thats all the background for right whats happening right now. so my best friend and this guy got in a huge argument over something really stupid and insignificant, and they stopped talking. she keeps telling me shes over him, but i can see it in her eyes that shes lying to me. i know she still loves him, and she always will. well, about a week ago me and this guy hung out, and i had to meet my best friend somewhere, so i asked him if he could drop me off, and he did, and my best friend saw him. she gave him dirty looks the whole time, and wouldnt talk to me at all. when we were in her car together, i was initiating all the conversation, and she would give me one-word answers. i knew she was mad about me hanging out with him… but i mean, hes my friend now, and i dont wanna just throw him away. maybe i should, i dont know. so after that car ride with her, my best friend and i havent talked at all, except when i texted her saying “hiii i miss youuu” and all she said back was “thanks”. but me and this guy have been talking a little each day. and a few days ago he texted me saying that he liked me and wanted to get with me again. i told him that i cant get with him since i would be betraying my best friend again, and that i dont want to lose her. and he keeps telling me to stop worrying about other people’s feelings and to just do what’s best for me. i dont know what to do anymore. i mean, i want my best friend there, always, but shes still not talking to me. and this guy… i just want to be his friend but he wont accept that. just talking to him is hurting my best friend, but i dont want to stop talking to him. i dont know, i think i should.

i dont know what to do anymore!
i keep just trying to make her happy, and thats all ive ever done with my life, is try to make other people happy. i dont know anymore, and i literally just want to drop off the face of this planet. its making my life hell.

My ex left me… for his slutty ex girl friend

So me and this guy Justin met eachother at a restaurant, and soon enough we figured out that we both went to the same school. Everything was turning out great, and he gave me his number, and he told me to text him whenever I wanted to talk to him. So later that night I texted him just saying hi, and that set it off. We talked non-stop for the next week, and pretty soon we knew pretty much everything about eachother. The best day of my life was when he asked me out, and I pretty much felt like I was on top of the world with the most wonderful, kind, and loving guys I’ve ever met.

After another two weeks, I noticed that he was becoming distant from me, but I ignored it. Then I saw some other girl that he was talking to sometimes, but I just ignored that also. I didnt want to think that he was keeping anything from me, because he was too nice and perfect for me that he wouldn’t hurt me or anything. Then I noticed that whenever I would try and talk to him, that he would just blow me off or whatever, and act like he didnt want to talk to me anymore, and I had no idea what happened, or why he was acting so differently all of a sudden.

Then that Saturday morning, at exactly 9:03 am, I got a text saying that it wasn’t working, and that he didnt want to have a relationship right now. I broke down, crying and sobbing all over the place. I asked him over and over what I did wrong or why he broke up with me, but he never told me… he just said that it wasnt the right time and stuff like that.

Three days later, I saw him at school - making out with his ex girlfriend by his car in the school parking lot. That was the worst feeling in the world, to see him with her… when me and him were in a relationship, he would always tell me that he didnt want to hold hands or anything when we walked together, because it was uncomfortable for him. So we never really kissed or anything in public. Then I see this happening, as people are walking by, getting in their cars, and then there’s me, standing randomly in the middle of the street, watching them eating eachother’s faces off.

I HATE SLUTTY GIRLS. Last year, his ex girlfriend threw a party at her house that was a topless party, and her parents were out of town. AND ALL SHE INVITED WERE GUYS! So there she was, with her top off, and 50 guys without their shirts on. SUCH. A. SLUT. So basically, Justing was having secret meetings with her, and we broke up because she came back to him, wanting to get back together.

WHAT A SLUT. I HATE HER. AND I HATE GUYS WHO MAKE YOU THINK YOUR THE WORLD, THEN BREAK YOUR HEART AND THROW IT IN A BLENDER.

Stupid, lying sponge of an ex-boyfriend

last Friday night, I got into an argument with the guy I’ve been living with for the past year & a half. No big deal. Couples argue. The thing that really pisses me off is that, during the course of this argument, he pops off with the statement the he doesn’t love me, that it was a mistake to tell me he did the first time, and that he cares about me, worries what happens to me, but has never been in love with me. This is after I supported his broke ass while he was out of work, paid most of the bills (I make more $), bought a birthday gift for his son that I was never allowed to meet, cooked & cleaned & all that other domestic shit, defended him to my friends after he got drunk one night & hit on one of my best friends…in retrospect, I see what a creep he was. But to knowingly mislead me all this time, to know he was lying to me every single time he said “I love you”, to look at me & see a free ride instead of a person who genuinely cared about his worthless, sorry ass…words fail me. I cannot even express how angry I am. Not so much at him, but at myself. Cuz I didn’t see him for the scummy, dishonest pig that he is.

When your Significant other sets EARLY ALARMS

This individual is mad because his significant other sets alarms that are WAYYY to early and never wakes up to turn them off!! Please help this person deal with his frustrations!

You know what I hate the most? When your significant other sets an alarm for 7am and never wakes up to turn it off!! I mean seriously, if you are going to set an alarm for 7am, please have the courtesy to wake up from your slumber and turn that thing off!! I HEAR THE same alarm every morning ding dong ding dong ding dong omg it drives me nuts!! When I tell her to turn it off, what does she say? OHHH IM GONNA WAKE UP AT 7AM tomorrow I will I will!! It’s like the girl who cried wolf, except I am the one who is getting the hit for it not the girl. omg and the phone alarms are so technical to turn off.. I sit drowsy as heck trying to ruffle thru the phone options trying to turn off the phone. I am going to start taking out the batteries to these things. I mean I feel like my sleep schedule is all out of order because of her!! I consistently wake up at 7am to turn off these frickin alarms. INCREDIBLE GAHHH

I’m Tired of Girls Who Can’t Handle Their Alcohol

This individual could have gotten some game.  However, his smooth moves did not allow him to score.  Please help this individual assess his strategies on dates and help him with his frustration.

I’m sick of girls who I’m having a great night with and I challenge them to drink, only to find out they have a low tolerance and my night has ended prematurely. We end up not doing anything afterwards and it’s a waste of time and money. Unfortunately, my morals dictate that the girl be conscious if we do have fun, so it sucks that once in a while a girl can’t handle her liquor. Thanks goangry.

Don’t Lead Me On In The First Place!

We went out on a few dates. You said you were having fun. We hooked up. Now we haven’t hung out in a while because you said you weren’t done with dance. Prom kind of sucked for me and you gave me a weird vibe the entire time and all you tried to give me was a couple kisses on the cheek?

And don’t let that guy hit on you at prom! I swear I was going to kick his ass if he did it again even if it was right in front of everyone!

Start expressing your emotions more! Try a little harder if you said you liked hanging out with me and you wanted to commit when you had the time. If you wanted to let me down easy you should’ve done it. Stop trying to be nice and just tell me the truth for once!

FUCK! FUCK! FUCK! FUCK! FUCK! FUCK!

The Dramatic Best Friend who’s a Chick

Dear Chick who is my Boyfriend’s “best friend”:

You had your chance with him. He was there when you needed a shoulder to cry on. He was there when your car had a flat tire and drove 40+ miles to come to your aid. He was there when your boyfriend dumped you.

He told you he liked you and you brushed him off and said you just wanted to be friends.

Months later, he finds me. He’s happy. he’s forgotten about you — no longer the love sick puppy for you and now…

YOU WANT HIM…YOU WANT HIM AS A BOYFRIEND?!?!?!

You e-mail him, telling him what a mistake you’ve made..how you love him and he’s always been the one and there for you

You call him

Yet YOU have a boyfriend

What is up with chicks who don’t fall for a guy until he is taken?

What is wrong with you? I’ve heard of monkeys that don’t let go until they’ve held on to another tree branch but this is just ridiculous…you’re trying to hold on to two branches